Bigger, stronger,
faster, smarter, leaner, more skilled, more capable, more knowledgeable, more
_________: we all desire growth in some capacity. When we look back and see
that right now we are something more than we previously were, we feel good.
When we've made gains, and then lose them it can be terribly discouraging.
Given that we live in an information epoch, the most significant limiting
factor in our personal development is often our own ability to focus effort in
a desired field. Fortunately, this is an aspect of ourselves that we can
actively address. Regardless of whatever specific area an individual would like
to improve in him or herself, there is an underlying current in development; if
it doesn't feel like work, it’s probably not working.
While they
are related, there is a difference between pain and suffering. Furthermore the
concept of work does not mean an activity is unenjoyable. Pain is the body’s
physiological response to extreme, often harmful, conditions. Suffering is the
mind’s reaction to that pain and is one reason different people have different
pain tolerances. A compelling example of this distinction
is the historic demonstration by the Vietnamese Monk, Thích Quang Dúc, who
self-immolated (some viewers may find images here disturbing), in protest of religious
oppression in June of 1963. Thích Quang Dúc undoubtedly experienced extreme
pain in this demonstration, his face and body language communicate an
experience of serenity as opposed to suffering. This
radical example shows an important aspect of how powerful our constitution can
truly be. Perhaps most importantly, there are times when our conscious mind can
make the overt decision to face work or pain head-on, and it can even be
healthy.
The importance of
being able to endure pain without suffering is that growth can be
uncomfortable. Indeed, any individual must be cautious because pain often
signifies possible harm. However growing pains take many forms and not
all pain is bad. Awareness and experience help us to determine which pain
catalyzes growth and which one leads to injury or other negative consequences.
For those of us looking to actively develop ourselves in any capacity, it is
important to remember that if it doesn’t feel like work, it’s probably not
working.
Advertisements for
easy or quick fixes to significant problems litter the internet and television.
Is there a product I can hook to my abs to burn away the fat as I watch tv? Is
there a pill that will make me stronger, faster, leaner, and smarter? Science
brings us new wonders every year but these advertisements are far more likely
to feed us the type of information that may inspires us to buy a product rather
than paint an accurate picture of how that product might affect us. Certainly
there are physical chemical reactions that underlie change of any kind, but
research in athletics and learning sciences alike support that real advancement
requires good old fashion work and overt effort.
Does your workout
leave your muscles burning and your breath short? Did your ballet practice push
your limits or could you easily perform all the acrobatics without much effort?
Do you play music you’ve known for years or do you push yourself to learn a new
piece that is currently just out of reach? How many mistakes were made while
learning math, science, or writing as a student? Lasting growth requires overt and focused work on specific sub-skills. Development only occurs at the
fringe of one’s present abilities. At the fringe, mistakes are made but
mistakes are how pushing one’s limits take shape in reality. In his book
Strength to Awaken, Robert McNamara, performance coach and professor of
Psychology at Naropa University, explains some of the deeper implications of
strength training. He describes training as a mental practice of expanding
one’s ability to endure suffering, and in doing so expanding one’s sense of
self and overall capabilities. He goes on to describe the changes one sees in
the mirror as a reflection of the interior development a person is making through
mindful effort. This concept goes beyond that of physical exercise and is true
for any disciplined Practice whether it be physical, mental, or as is usually
the case, a combination of the two.
No comments:
Post a Comment